He wants to move closer to his adult dysfunctional kids
What on earth do I do now. He wants to move closer to his dysfunctional kids. One homeless heroin addict. Second lazy wont work leaching off parents playing wo is me.
We have planned to by condo closer to city near our current home. No lawn work as we both are disabled. Just came back from 8 days with them in pacific NW. He now wants to move back there. Why???? Why did our marriaged life change over night? Because princess wants daddy wallet to come back home. 23 works enough to buy smokes and gamble, But can't buy her own car, can't keep her phone turned on , doesn't pay rent to her alcoholic bio mom. But pays mom with buying booze. She's stress eat herself to nearly 260.
We've been planning to buy this condo for 2 1/2 years. Why did OUR LIFE GET TIED TO HER????
He says you love me don't you. I said YOU LOVE Dont YOU. He said its just an idea. I said you've already made up your mind. He says I miss my kids. He's attaching his happiness to living near them.
I don't want to move 3000 miles disabled 59 years old and start over. I can't afford to do that.
The way he sees his life now is "I can't win" he said that. Living with me princess isn't happy, living there wife isn't happy. Basically he's not happy being away from them. We can afford to visit them at least once a year for 2 3 weeks. Is that not enough? Is that nit enough... REALLY..
Parents out there does this man love me? He can't afford to buy anything. I don't want to live there. Neither of us together can afford to live there.
What is he doing? Please help me here.