UPDATE 3 - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
Dh didn't even get a chance to call the school when the principal called him this morning at 8:15 a.m. DH and the principal are on first name basis since they have been dealing with the GWR for a few years now. The assistant Principal is brand new this year and was not aware of GWR's past shenannigans.
When the principal got in this morning and talked with the AP he he realized the error that the AP made. Seems that when they talked to Beaver and asked if DH should be called, she replied that no she would tell her husband about the incident. ****Record Scratch****
WHAT?? The principal said he promtly informed the AP that DH and Beaver were long divorced and that at any time with GWR and/or SD are involved they are to call DH first. DH is the school placement parent and that DH has a long history of making sure Beaver was included and that Beaver does not have the same history.
The AP apologized and admitted to not reading GWR's file very carefully. The principal then said..let me guess Beaver didn't inform you of any of this did she? Dh..Nope...got it all from SD yesterday. Beaver also declined to talk to SD yesterday when the school had her on the phone. Beaver just wanted to talke to GWR. The AP told DH she was surprised by that. DH explained that GWR is Beaver's golden child and SD is usually an after thought so he wasn't suprised.
The AP then went through yesterdays events, etc. Not much different from SD's account but they did include that GWR changed his story no less than three times and Beaver was upset that GWR was in trouble...after all he didn't send the texts and it was just a "joke". The school resource officer explained to her that this time GWR would be receiving a three day out of school suspension with no make up work and would be attending a bullying class once a week for the next 6 weeks. If this occurs again and GWR is invovled he will be charged with a sex crime and escorted to the county jail. He is 18 and NOT a minor.
The other boys involved got to sister school in our city and they were dealt with by that school. The principal could not say what the punishment was, but that i most certainly included suspension and may have criminal charges involved.
Now we wait because SD will get sh*t on at Beavers on how dare she get GWR in trouble. It will be her fault because she told someone and now poor widdle itty bitty GWR is in trouble. SD goes back to Beaver's today. Oh joy.
DH did let it slip that GWR hasn't been living at our house in over a year. The principal was interested in that since he knows Beaver lives out of district in the ghetto. Technically GWR shouldn't be able to go to our district since he is not physically present in the district.
DH was upset that GWR didn't get more punishment. I told but he got something and its more about someone believing SD that GWR is a douche bag and not just dismissing her. That she knows someone thought enough to make a report and make her important. Had it not been reported GWR would have gotten no punishment at all, since there was no way Beaver would punish poor widdle diddums GWR.