I see a Full blown Pending disaster coming my way! HELP! Advice needed
Ok I already posted that SS13 is a level ten daddy clinger with NO Relief in sight. Plus SS13 is a total Entitled spoiled disrespectful brat. It's pure Hell when SS13 over.
Now DH Casually mentioned to me he's going to tell SS13 if SS13 has any questions or problems understanding his HW this year to call DH ANYTIME. I Immediately in my head went to panic mode! Why? To begin with SS is lazy, plays dumb and hates doing HW. When SS is over DH has to sit with him and walk SS through EVERYTHING. What should take ten minutes takes HOURS. Now add SS knows DH will basically hold his hand through all his HW.
So here is my FEAR. SS13 will be calling DH on almost EVERYTHING expecting DH to stay on the phone with him for hours walking him through HW. Now between my job and SS's normal visits DH and I get very little alone time. Now I have to worry on those free evenings the brat will be calling daddy for HW help.
Now EVEN worse I can see SS13 wanting to come over and have DH help him on harder projects. There goes my free Saturday afternoon with DH. Then of course SS will want to take breaks inbetween school work to have play time with daddy. There goes my whole free Saturday with DH. Yes I'm jumping ahead BUT I know Step brat and this WILL happen if I can't prevent it somehow.
So help! How if anything can I try and discourage DH from opening this can of worms? If this does not work what kind of "rules" can I set ahead of time with DH so this does NOT become a free for all calling/coming over when ever SS wants???