BM is either an idiot or she has another agenda
So bf and BM have not exchanged any words for about a week and a half, until today BM messages in the app asking if the divorce had been finalized yet. Bf responds and says, have not heard yet, just waiting on the judge's signature. BM then responds she needed to know for taxes. Bf then responds that it won't be till next year's tax filing that they will file divorced or single. BM then responds again saying the tax guy asked and she filed separate ... Bf does not respond to this message.
So either BM is an idiot and cannot figure out that since you file taxes for the year that just ended in which they were not divorced yet, that they need to file as still married. OR BM has another agenda. I know BM is an idiot, but she messaged my bf last year about tax filing then too... 1. it is not that difficult to figure out, 2. clearly you are going through an accountant of some type so they could easily answer this for you, 3. stop messaging about shit that has nothing to do with the child.
I really don't know which it is, or maybe she is just too lazy to figure out the info.