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Aniki-Moderator's picture

Friday at last! Certainly seemed to take its time getting here. A coworker showed me a meme this morning that struck a chord... It was a picture of Wedneday Addams that said:

I have 2 reactions whe going out.

  1. Ew, the sun.
  2. Ew, the people.

I am DEFINITELY feeling that second one today!

 

Eff off to:

  • Baby pushers. Nosy, insensitive people who are constantly pushing others to have kids. Some people don't want kids. Some people can't have kids. And it's NUNYA. Young friends of ours just celebrated 5 years of marriage. Over half the people there were hounding them and I found the wife in the bathroom in tears. Fertility problems. Sad
     
  • Emphysema. DH's aunt recently went into the hospital. We're gearing up for a funeral.
     
  • A YUGE eff off to cancer. That miserable disease is about to claim another victim. One of my closest friends, a sister in my heart, is discussing End Of Life plans with her mother's doctors. I just want to SCREAM.

 

Hope you have an enjoyable, stress-free weekend!

Comments

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

I agree on the concer... For sure...

Eff off to:

  • People's opinions
  • Feeling like I wasted some time in life

 

Other than that I'm not bad though tbh...

Aniki-Moderator's picture

My dear friend, you did NOT waste some time in life. Look at that time as a valued lesson. What is NOT okey. What you will NOT allow. What you do NOT want. You have grown from that experience and will come out of this better and STRONGER.

Opinions are like arseholes, doll. Everyone has one. And they only matter if you let them. DON'T LET THEM MATTER. Give rose

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

I have SOOOO many things on my "absolutely not" list at this point it's not even funny. LOL

Aniki-Moderator's picture

There you go! Life lessons are hard, but get you closer to your ultimate goal and happiness. xo

WarMachine13's picture

Eff off to those who flag your comment because they can't handle the INNOCUOUS truth. 

Aniki I'm real sorry about your DH aunt and friend's mom. Prayers for all.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

WM, that flagger is a ginormous poopie head who needs to get stuffed. *diablo*

Thank you for the prayers. xo

Merry's picture

Eff off to mysogynistic men who try to "help" me. I'm an effing rockstar in my industry (well, I am) and I don't need or want your worthless "help" that wastes my time.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Oh, ish. Are they trying to "flex their muscles"? Trying to show you they're superior (BARF)? Flirting with you? Bunch of asshats. Makes me think of that Helen Reddy song... I am woman, HEAR ME ROAR!

Merry's picture

Superior beings, yes. Flirting, no. They are super professional, but they assume they know every gd thing. My job involves lots of federal regulation. So don't be making changes to things that are mandatory and act like you're facking doing me a favor.

strugglingSM's picture

Eff off to people who punt their responsibilities off to others. 

Eff off to people who need to pontificate instead of just making a decision. 

Eff off to people who get their feelings hurt over things that have nothing to do with them. 

Eff off to BM for again thinking that rules don't apply to her. 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Eff off to people who get their feelings hurt over things that have nothing to do with them. 

But have to make it about them...

BTW, I appreciate you using pontificate. I like that word!

CLove's picture

to write my eff off list.

Today we go to court to review divorce docs, and have Toxic Troll sign a document that her ex-spousal support is paid in full.

I dont think she will, but we shall see.

((hugs)) Im sorry that your loved ones are suffering.

Thumper's picture

F off to the Tornados that had no mercy in TN this week.  So many people lost their lives Sad

 

 

 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Horrible. It would be so AWESOME if there was a reliable system in place to warn people. 

Cooooookies's picture

Eff off to heavy breathers and people who chew with their mouth open.  I had both of such people in the staff room yesterday at the same time.  One breathes like he has the worst cold imaginable.  The resident doctor who spends one week at a time there has decided to start eating her meals in the staff room.  That's great, she's a nice person.  However, she does not chew ONE SINGLE BITE WITH HER MOUTH CLOSED.  *Chomp, slurp, chomp, smack, chomp, smack, slurp, smack*

I have misophonia so I want to kill each person...repeatedly and violently.  Every. Single. Time.

-massiveeyetwitch-

thinkthrice's picture

Mrs. Headlights is in charge of the ID card system so she sent out an email to the entire IT dept with Dr. Phil's ID card photo cut and pasted into it. "If you see this guy today, wish him a happy birthday!"

I must also add that in our department birthdays are very low-key.   We don't send out global emails or go nuts over it.  This was an obvious office wife brown-nosing move.

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