Maybe it’s just me!!!!
Prior to my husband and I getting married he really wasn't spending time with his boys (like barely very very rarely) and I was trying to encourage the change.. and apparently it worked because now he gets them every other weekend because of me. But now I feel like it's biting me in the butt cause I don't feel the effort he use to put into me and maybe I'm selfish but I didn't think I would get forgotten about because of some encouragement of things you should have been doing. Then at first he would never talk to the mothers of his kids but I encouraged him to converse with them and be mature.. but now it's like a damn text fest about stupid things.. so am I getting jealous of a situation I created yes. I just wanted everyone to be happy including me.