Need advice on 22 year stepdaughters demands
I am in a same sex relationship and have been for 15 years. We have lived together for 14 years. My partner has 3 children, the 2 youngest live at home with us, the youngest is 22. She has now issued her mum with an ultimatum that I must leave, it seems she has hated me most of her life and her mental health issues are all down to me. Her mum quite rightly feels the need to put her first and I am now in the very scary position of having to find somewhere new to live at age 52.
We have had our ups and downs, arguments about stupid things like leaving shoes out and most recently parking on the drive and thereby blocking in the other cars, nothing major, or so I thought!
Is there anything I can do to try and change this or should I just accept that its me or her and I cant and in fact wont make my partner have to struggle with her choices anymore.