So BM messages my bf this morning asking if he was picking up his daughter for the weekend or waiting till his week. Then also saying she needs his daughters and her older child's birth certificates and social security cards to enroll them in school. 
 

Last we heard she hadn't signed the papers so the week on and week off schedule does not start yet. So bf calls his attorney to ask if he's heard that she has signed them and he says no and I haven't heard back from her attorney so I would ask her if she signed them. So bf asks her if she's signed them and she says how she hasn't she's "worried it's another trick" etc going on about how she just wants to coparent well and all she's had done to her. She even goes as far as to say that it should of all be done with already and I just want to get along for our daughter, blah blah, how him asking her is making her more suspicious about signing them.

So bf is civil because we want her to sign the damn papers and says how we can do that and work together once the papers are signed so we can move forward without this tension in the air, etc. After a couple times back and forth finally she said she is going to sign them she was going to sign them today and get the divorce done.

We are not believing a single thing she says till her attorney calls his attorney back and says they are indeed signed. But everything BM said was literally a lie and complete bullshit.

On to the birth certificate and social security card thing. Everywhere we read etc said BM legally has to change her older child's birth certificate that says he is the father. Also, no BM you are not getting the copies bf has so he has to go pay for new copies or these documents for his records. Legally he doesn't have to give them to her and she can get her own. To be civil so she signs the papers though he said I can't bring them today because I'm coming straight from work. She responds to bring them to drop off then on Sunday. Which if she hasn't signed the papers yet he will say he forgot them or can't find them etc. then once she signs bf will tell her no he isn't giving them to her, how she has to take his name off the birth certificate of her child, and to f*** off basically.

so yeah that's the update 

update: BM signed the papers today and bf's attorney is going and picking them up this afternoon yay