Changing Room Arrangements So Bio Kids Can Have Their Own Room?
This is a little messy. Please be kind.
I have two sons, 10 and 11 from a previous marriage and three SKs, SD17, and SS15, and SS13.
We have a 4 bedroom house. Currently my BSs share, SSs share, and SD has her own room.
A serious issue has arisen in our home that has made it so SS13 is not allowed over nor have contact with my children. So we now have 2 SKs part time.
My sons have been counting down the days until their SDs room is available so they no longer have to share a room, and now, SD17 and SS15 have stopped coming over as often. DH sees them outside of our home during the week, and they stay the night maybe 2 nights per month (Arrive in the evening, leave in the morning) Given the fact that I have two empty rooms in my house 99% of the time, is it unreasonable to ask SD and SS to share a room when they choose to sleep over? My sons are running out of space and are practically on top of each other.
I can offer more explanation if need be, and for what it's worth, I don't agree with the lack of time spent here, but if this is the reality, I'd like to use the space available in my home. Thank you.