SD invited DH and my kids but not me
A little background: SD is 21 years old, she hasn’t been active in our lives. In fact the last time we saw her was New Year’s Eve and that was just for a few hours because she thought she could be slick and try to squeeze $$$ out of my DH, when she saw that wasn’t happening she called her mom with a quickness to pick her up haha. Me and her have no relationship, we basically act fake friendly with each other. She has never came at me wrong and I’ve always been cordial and kind. Deep down inside I’m not her biggest fan because I see right through her, she lies a lot, tries to manipulate DH for money. Whenever she would stay the rare weekend with us in her teens it would always come with a purpose aka money and once she got the money she would leave. She always guilts DH about not being there when she was younger and throws it in his face a lot. Anyhow we caught her in some big lies around her senior year in high school and DH finally saw the light! Their only communication now is a random text msg here and there.
My reason for posting is that I saw their text msgs from 2 days ago and she asked him “whenever he’s not busy if he and the kids (our 2 kids together ages 8 & 6) can hang out sometime.” I immediately noticed my name was missing, I felt some type of way like what did I do to her? I mean honestly I would prefer not to go because she makes me feel uncomfortable and gives off weird vibes. Should I care that I’m not invited or just leave them be? Even though I’m positive this is just another plot to get money from him, and she’s using the excuse of hanging with the kids as a strategy to get him to say yes.