Family cut us out.
My in laws have cut my husband and I and our daughter from family celebrations. I am devasted. My husband is divorced from his ex wife as she had affair. (Long story short) he has 3 kids from previous marriage and we had trouble from the start of our relationship as they and his ex wife didn’t like him meeting me. We then had our daughter and the step kids became very jealous. Especially the eldest daughter. Her and the ex wife did everything they could to split family and in the end we had no relationship with all step kids because it became so toxic that effected our daughter. Then his family decided to believe lies they told and cut us out. Not one of them discussed what they were told by them and just took sides. We only found out my in law family had issues when we didn’t get invited to wedding, christenings and birthdays etc. We have now rekindled relationship with step kids and are very close. Now in-laws are somewhat annoyed by step kids for seeing us. Step kids want to have gathering with all family and asked us to make up with in-laws but I don’t want to. They said my daughter came along last and that’s why they chose to cut us. I think my husband was there before all of his kids and it’s a ridiculous argument.