Custodial agreed to let child move W/O changing orders?
Mother is cusodial parent. Child (age 10) has been begging to live with father in a different state. Mom finally caves in and agrees to allowing the child to live with dad in a different state but mother does not want to change any of the court ordered custody papers. Father has child support taken out monthly.
How would this work? Should we just see if Mom would send back the money and possibly more as support from her? If she doesn't agree to send back money at the very least, do we just bite our tongue and wait it out till the child is considered to be a resident of the new state? If it went to court after 6 months, how likely is a judge to switch custody around and order back pay + support moving forward?
Has anyone dealt with something simialr?