Was this a law I was unaware of?
I’ve recently reached the conclusion that Psycho BM+coddled SD= very unhappy me and I can’t do it anymore.
Apart from the unpleasant realities of ending a relationship and all the untangling THAT entails, I’ve been thinking.
When my boyfriend and I began dating, the BM insisted on getting to know me, basically wanted to inspect my home, and have a “working relationship” with me to decide if I was fit to be around her kid. He and I basically laughed and told her no, I want no part in her mess and have no interest in that.
That was when things started getting more litigious and all around awful. So now I’m left to wonder. Did I screw this up from the get go? She was being really inappropriate and invasive and I wanted to keep my distance. If I had just played nice would things have been better? I guess I have no way of knowing.