DJ and BD14
I'm coming here asking what yall's opinion is about this.
BD and DH have a bad relationship. BD almost refuses to acknowledge DH. She will not initiate any conversation with DH as it usually ends in her being in trouble with him.
IMO DH is wrong.
DH feels as though BD argues too much with him. And that her only response should be yes sir, or she should just believe what he tells her.
DH is intelligent, but so is BD. They both are hard headed. And they are both very opinionated. DH will read something somewhere, and bring up what he read, BD will usually have read something else about the same topic, that has differing views and offer up what she read, and her opinion on it. DH will then tell her no, she's wrong. She'll explain that she read something different, but that it is correct. DH will then (here's where I think he's wrong) start getting angry and saying that BD is arguing with him, that she thinks she's right when he's read it off of a reputable site, and BD shouldn't be arguing.
Like this whole James Charles thing, BD has watched all the videos between him and that girl. She's also read articles about what's going on. DH only just read articles and never watched the videos (I don't blame him). He brought up the article.
DH- hey, BD did you hear about the James Charles thing?
BD - well this is what I think after watching the videos
DH - well no, you're wrong, this is what's happening, I read it on an article.
BD - I read an article too, but I also watched the actual videos.
DH to me - see? All she does is argue!
BD - how am I arguing? We're just having a discussion.
Me - is she not allowed to have a discussion with you? Ya'll both read articles, she watched the videos. Im not saying any one is right or wrong in this discussion, I think thre can be differing views without it being an argument.
And of course DH was angry with me for not taking his side (i took no sides)
Am I completely wrong? DH seems to be WANTING fights with BD, to me it seems that any time BD has a difference of opinion from DH that he calls it arguing.
Am I wrong, should I be correcting her? I don't want to be one of those parents that is blind to her bad behavior.