BM, you are getting very predictable
SS19 came over yesterday for Memorial Day, for a cook-out, and we actually had a very good time. I've been trying to let go of my anger at him for the years of alienation and how he's treated DH, and as he and DH get closer, it's been easier to do that. SS has been pleasant, and while I still find his lying and bullshitting toxic, I'm willing to give him a chance. Overall, we had a nice time. A year ago, neither of us would have imagined him back in our lives.
Well today, here comes the email from BM, telling DH yet again that there is no tuition reduction for him because (insert blah blah blah bullshit here).
Every time DH has a good encounter with SS, BM kicks him in the shins with some kind of harassing and bullying email about money.
It's predictable now. I'm not sure how it helps her feel better, but it's really very pathetic.