Advice on Rude Adult Step Son
I have tried and tried with my adult step son and npthng works with him. I have come to the conclusion that he really does not want a healthy, positive relationship with me. My husband never admits that his son is rude and too hard to please, while always judging me and being highly critical of anything I do. I really have had it. Now he got married and of course, I was not invited. But that's ok, I didn't want to go in the first place. It really hurt my husband that I wasn't invited and SS knows that. But, my husband talked to his son as IF I was following along with wedding plans because " I am gracefully stepping aside and care about him" UGH! So his son must think I am really stupid. His son is now married and wants me to show up and meet his new inlaws. The only reason he wants me to meet them is to validate his personality! I'm not going to do it. My husband is putting pressure on me to meet them and I just don't want to! My question is, am I being too stubborn or is it best to just stay out of it? I am sure the inlaws are nice, but they need to spend time with him to see what a jerk he is!