BM drama, does it ever end?!?
I’m getting fed up and working myself up over the drama the BM is adding to my life. She always claims she puts the kids first but on a monthly basis she tells the kids that her and BD are getting back together when she and the kids know that we will be getting engaged this year and will get married. She caused the divorce after numerous times of cheating on BD. He ever gave her a second chance and she for three years afterwards, she was still sleeping with other men, including married men. Now she has a plenthora of new men in her life and bring them around the kids and tells them that they are just mommy’s friends....but me, I have a great life, career, financially stable, eonderful relationship with the kids (who don’t know the real reason why mom and dad got divorced) but yet I’m talked about like I’m the woman who broke up their marriage. I know I can’t play her dirty games even though sometimes I just want to mean girl her back but I’m exhausted. I play nice to her face whenever I have to see her but then sometimes after I’m triggered stacked by all her drama for weeks leading up to an event for the kids that we both will be present, I get snippy and give my boyfriend attitude. I’m just exhausted by all the drama, we are all in the same age bracket and I’m tired. Do these BM EVER STOP?! Why can’t they be adults when they are the cause of their own misery?!