Feeling betrayed /rushed
UI recently posted about the incident BS 8 and SD 11 had, it brought some tension for a few days but eventually DH and I decided to let it go. Then MIL text me to say if things aren’t working out why don’t you consider going back to your country, I was surprised because she knows I lived in another(not mine) country where my YBS isn’t allowed till 5 years (because of some visa issues he had when we left). DH and I have discussed divorce for a while now but we haven’t been able to do anything because I don’t yet have the right papers to enable me to work, we been waiting for that so I can be able to work, drive, divorce etc....in the meantime we try to keep peace and we get along well most of the time, we forget that we even plan divorce, we are intimate and still do things together.
I showed DH the text and he wasn’t happy and told MIL to stop telling me such and to let things be and MIL said my papers are taking too long and there seems to be no progress since we talked about divorce and apologized for getting involved and then said she knows everything I say always has another side to it. To my surprise MIL took me for dinner then later drove to a place and said this is for rent you can call the owner and make arrangements to move. It made me feel rushed and Betrayed. She knows I do not work, have two kids and no money . Ever since I’ve arrived she’s been nothing but nice to me, to my kids, she loves them, even has their pictures on walls , and does everything for them like a real grandma , when DH and I have issues and drama she’s always on my side, listening, comforting me. I see her like my own mother.
Last night she text another apartment to rent, DH told her to stop rushing me but her excuse is she was trying to help me; to me it felt more like she’s indirectly telling me to leave, or I’m I just overthinking ?