I lost it and called him names
Tonight I kinda lost it, I yelled at my DH and told him he wasn’t a man and that he’s BM’s b***h .
I moved for DH and I have no family nor friends here and ever since I’ve been here there’s always problems related to BM or SD, I’ve never had peace in my marriage. It kept building up and lately it looks like I’m loosing it and overreacting to things happening.
Sd (11)was with me and my boys(12 and 8) yesterday ,DH was working, I didn’t notice her and my YBS had An argument while they were play outside. SD told BM my son called her fat, I didn’t take my son’s side because I know things happen when kids play but I also know Sd lies a lot ,so does BM but what made me mad was my husband was already kinda taking sides, so it made me mad and I told my son I don’t want him playing with SD , when I said that I didn’t realize DH texted BM to say I told my son not to play with SD. Few months ago the kids were playing and SD told BM my son hurt her eye , yet when it happened we were al there and it was just kids playing and SD was fine but the following day BM made it an issue and called my parents in law to tell them she had to see a doctor for SD’s eye. Sd calls my kids names and somewhat rude to them but I always let it go and don’t complain to anyone because siblings fight, even myself she’s called me names but I let it go.
The other issue I’ve been struggling with is Now we have Sd every weekend and Bm goes away but expects SD to look after the dogs she leaves home, so DH and SD both go to feed them every morning (on weekends) and evening, and lately if we are out doing something DH looks for an excuse for us to get back home early and I realized it because dogs need fed before dark, yet before that we always went away on weekends but now we can’t even do anything because at around 9to 10 am dogs need taken care of and around 4to5 pm. That’s not ok.