In A Bind
BM won't contribute to anything besides what ss6 sees her contribute to. She won't carry medical insurance because she doesn't have a paying job. She complains when we pay medical bills under our name in full to prevent her from messing our credit up. She will only pay hospital yet she can't even pay the bills that are in her name. Question is shall we just pay and not send bill to stop any drama from coming our way or stick it to her since she hasn't been in the picutre for last 4 yrs and causes grief once I was in the picture?
Next we ask her to buy school clothes and allow them to come to our house and we will pay her half. She tells us not to pay but stopping our harrassing emails is payment enough. The only reason we email is to say we are visiting out of state, pickup/dropoff arrangements and reminders of doctors appointments as well as clothing shopping. This woman went to school to be a lawyer and she claims we harrass. She uses each email to degrade DH or myself. We don't ever say things in emails about her.
She tries to make it in her emails that we don't take care of child either. He is almost 7 and kids grow unbeknown to her so yes clothes to get outgrown quickly if they hit a growth spurt yet she is supermom to the rescue and buys him clothes. I should say her bf buys it all since she is a loser of a mother and only is with guys for money.
How shall DH and I handle all this? Cease all with her and cause less drama or stick it to her and how to stop the nonsense in emails?