Hmmm how does this sound to you guys?
So Dh and Bm need to have a talk. They have needed to have this talk about boundaries and expectations for the last three years. So dh finally agrees to call and set it up.
Here is his plan:
Dh will meet Bm at an elementary school park at 5-530pm on Monday. She is bringing the 4 year old child with her.
They hope to discuss boundaries, like the bday party, and expectations, like the fact that Dh WILL NOT say yes to anything without talking to me about it. And other such issues.
Dh believes that having the (attention seeking) child present he can prevent BM from freaking out and causing a scene. Worse case scenario she has to literally run away to avoid making a plan for an ACTUAL sit down talk.
This is 6 days before the bday party that we are being threatened about.