So today DBF gets a random text from the ex (DumbBunny) about how they need to "talk." She says that she dosen't like how they have been fighting so much and its not good for little guy. He agrees that its not good, however she is the one freaking out and cursing in front of him and just going bananas. So after about 1/2 day of her berading him with txts he finally was like "whatever, ok." This makes me nervous, not because I think she is going to make a move or anything, just because its never as simple as "just talking." She has something up her sleeve. DBF is building a case against her to get full custody and she might be catching on. She's not smart enough to find this site. So anyway, today after we picked him up from school and got home, he started hitting our cat with this little race car track thing. I told him to put it down and its like I'm not even there. He was completely ignoring me. Anyway, he was playing with my huge yoga balance ball and DBF said, give that to StepCHill and he said "nooooo!!!!" Usually he's fine, he listens to me, asks me for juice and snacks, gives me cuddles, etc but today it was like a complete 180. After his tantrum about not givnig mme the yoga ball DBF said "do you love StepCHill?" and he said "no!! i dont love her." Ummm.... we were both like where the hell did this come from??? Last night he kept saying "daddy, and StepCHill, and mommy, and little guy" and then went to her house this am (since she dosent have a "real" job.) We just find it interesting that he is acting like this and she wants to "talk" all of a sudden out of nowhere... He's been a brat to me before but NEVER said anything like this. He's always come to me for help, using the potty, getting snacks, etc. I just don't get it and DBF and I have a REALLY suspicious feeling....