Some of you know the situation, some don't. I will try not to go into to much recap of the whole thing.
But about a month ago after dealing with my wife's ex husband trying to intimidate us.
I hashed it out with him and this failed to no progress. So I put down the new rules for Dick Head.
Told him to stay off my property. Drop the kid off at the curb.
And since that day he magically has been able to drop off the son at school and avoid the whole new rule I placed.
Well last night he had no choice but to bring him home to us.
And he called to verify that BM was home.
After he was out in front of our house. And needless to say both of our cars are in the driveway.
He still is trying to push the control over her to make sure at some point she "HAS" to tell him, she is home for her son. and wants to see her at the door.
I think I will tell him to stop calling to verify if she is home when her car is in the driveway.
There is an agreement for the drop off time. There is no reason for the RE VERIFICATION or any reason for him to peak into our doorway to see who is answering the door.
I think I want to give the son his own key, so he can let himself in.
But I kinda fear that Dad may feel he can enter our home if his son allows him to.
What are your thoughts?
My absolute goal is to stop his antics of control.