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Am I the only frustrated new wife on this topic..? It's really weird. SDs (5 & 10) live with us yet DH continues to tell lies about the ex. I completely trust him that he doesn't want her back or anything but it doesn't make sense to me!! Most recent lie was that he agreed to let Biomom take them on a 2 week trip and told me their aunt was going as well (aunt is caring and keeps them more than Biomom)..Well, kids tell me last night aunt isn't going on the trip.
Why does BM send us emails pretending to be SS? She throws in a few misspelled words here and there to try to make us believe it's really him, but there's proper punctuation, grammar, sentence structure...even apostrophes for crying out loud! The kid is 8! It's pretty damn obvious it's her! But no, it couldn't be, because at the end it says "I know you think mom tells me to say things but she's outside right now."
Well suprise...suprise...Guess who is probably going to have to repeat the fourth grade???? Her teacher sent a rather curt letter home address to "MR and MRS ------) about MY Hell's "lack of responsibility" with her school and home work and said the results are that she will have to repeat the fourth grade.
Where to begin? My fiance got 4 comp tickets to a children's play so we arranged a surprise sleepover for SD with her friend (the one who came over on the last visit - we'll call her BFF). BFF is SD's friend from swimming. BFF's mom and BM are friendly because they both volunteer for swim team and their daughters are best friends. Well, we didn't tell BM about our plans, not because it was a secret, but because we didn't think it necessary and honestly, we knew she'd try to control it or prevent it in some way because she just wouldn't like it.
I haven't written anything on here in quite a while. That's not to say that nothing's been happening. Quite the contrary - we've been so busy I've practically neglected my internet life! You know I'm busy when I can't find time to get on the internet!
Well, this time last year, Ms. Perfect was about to give birth to baby Cash Cow. She was understandably busy, as we threw the only birthday party for ss. This year, we have him on his birthday (hah!), and of course are throwing another party (see post regarding total lack of WWE paraphanalia). SS told us at the last visitation that Ms. P. was planning on doing his birthday party the week before. He was excited, as he was finally having an overnight party (which it seems like all the "cool" older kids are doing this year).
My wonderful sd came over with her doll yesterday. Whe is much more into stuffed animals than dolls, usually; she likes to dress them up in all kinds of outfits. But yesterday she came over with her American Girl Molly doll.
I've seen this doll before, at one of her brother's soccer games. I've heard BM mention the doll. So this morning SD is struggling to put on the doll's shoes and asks me for help, and as I'm struggling away she says "well, the doll is really old. Daddy gave her to Mommy, and Mommy gave her to me". And I feel like someone punched me in the stomach.
The birds are chripping the sun is shining and life is getting bridghter. I am a BM and after reading some of the posts on this site it made me stand back and think. The Ex (which is really a pain in my ass) called this week and ask for more time with the boys at first I said No way you agreed to what is in the paper work and that is that. Well then I got to thinking about a lot of you that want to see you kids and can't so I did a lot of thinking and decided to be the bigger person on this one I mean hell atleast their dad wants to see them right?
It's been almost 6 months and nothing has improved. I just became a mother to child who is not mine where the father doesn't care at all. It's sad that his mother nor his father can take care of him, but after tons of conseling, I've came to the conclusion that is a fight that I will never win.
And No, it hasn't been found. In response to posts: Mic's going back to court to enforce the court order that was issued back in the summertime. There was a court date back in January, but she didn't show. He filled out the paperwork that day to reschedule. He has a copy of some sort of paperwork from that day that should prove that he indeed filled out the "lost" paperwork. Thanks for sharing your stories about lost paperwork. When all else fails, it's so encouraging just to know that we are not the only ones going through this.
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