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Submitted by Hanny on Wed, 04/04/2007 - 12:47pm

My BF and I had a long discussion last night and can't seem to come to an agreement on things. A little history, we have been seeing each other for 3 years. He has 2 girls, 17 and 12. the 17 year old doesn't visit anymore for other reasons the 12 year old he has every weekent Friday to Sunday except 1 weekend a month. Over the past 3 years I have pretty much sat home on weekends by myself while he has been with his kids. Finally met the kids about a year ago and see them on occasion.

Unmailed Letter to Hateful SD

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Submitted by ccbj on Wed, 04/04/2007 - 12:03pm

Just to get this off my chest, I'm posting the e-mail that my 29 yr old biological daughter wrote to the hateful brat of a SD I have....It was never sent (only to me).

Stepsister,
Let me start by saying that you and I have a problem. A HUGE F..... PROBLEM.

I've looked beyond your mistreatment of my mother for several years now. First I blew it off as adolescent bs. Then teen bs. Now, you are almost a woman, therefore old enough to hear this.

I'm a "NEAT FREAK"???!!!

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Submitted by ccbj on Wed, 04/04/2007 - 11:15am

BD just talked to BM about the whole mess and she's now telling her children not to bother about anything I say because I'm a "neat freak".

OK, I admit it! If not wanting the children to smell like cat piss, being angry that the night before a week's vacation to California the BM sends over 2 garbage bags of wet clothes for me to pack, having a problem with all their clothes being washed in one load, their hair smelling like it's not been washed in two weeks, the kids looking like orphaned hillbillies.............I'M A NEAT FREAK!!!!!!

Part two of two BM's!!

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Submitted by Sweetness on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 9:28pm

I just wrote a blog on Ex-wife-to-be. Now to begin on the Ex-g/f who was around before Ex-wife-to-be. She is mother of BF's two oldest girls, 7yo & 5yo. BF and Ex-g/f are always in and out of Court as Ex-gf is always making allegations and accusations against BF and his family.

She's not afraid to play dirty when it comes to extending her visitation rights. The fact of the matter is, in my opinion, she is a bad mother. She doesn't care about the girls and she only wants them out of spite towards BF.

Imagine having to deal with two BM's!

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Submitted by Sweetness on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 8:45pm

Well G'day there!

First of all, I'd just like to say that I'm VERY new to this and it's good to know that I am not alone. I've been quite frustrated with the BF on a couple of occasions feeling like he doesn't understand my position/what I'm going through. So, it's reassuring to know that there are other people out there going through the same or similar situations and that there are people to talk to!

How would you handle this?

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Submitted by Caitlin on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 3:56pm

My fiance has been leaving voicemails for BM every day for a week (Wednesday through Tuesday) on her cell phone and he has a little trick where he puts a confirmation receipt on the messages so he knows if and when she listens to them. (Hooray Verizon Wireless!) As you may remember, BM whisked SD away on vacation and was very elusive as to where they were and when they were leaving and coming back so he's not sure when he'll be seeing SD next.

Had lunch w/BM!

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Submitted by happy mom on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 2:39pm

A month ago...took SS to his football game, husband could not make it so I took him w/my daughter. After the game I was going to take the kids to lunch when SS invited his mother to join us. She made an excuse that she was going to do laundry and ss said you can do that later and wanted her to come join us. I said that's fine. It was a very weird feeling, this is the 1st time sitting w/this woman. We talked about our upcoming trips and that was it. Of course I had many questions to ask her but could not say them in front of the kids. Saving that for later.

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