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newstep07's picture

I LOVE my soon to be dh with such an intensity it takes my breath away, makes me cry when I think about him, I miss him so much when we are apart that I feel physically sick. BUT.. and here is the but... he has custody of his 3 children who unfortunately are the offspring of the evilist, most hateful woman I have ever met. My dh was basically her whipping boy for 12 long years before SHE went out, had an affair, got on drugs and divorced him. She thought she would get the kids and he would be supporting her for the rest of her lazy life while she sat on welfare and got child support.

Why can't I be wrong once in a while?

Steamed's picture

Well once again SS has proved my prediciton correct. He decided two days ago to quit his job. My wife just found out about it today, he is supposed to be leaving for school in a week and was supposed to transfer to a Walmart near the school but not sure if they will take him now. He only had a few more days to work there and then he would be starting school so I guess it doesn't really matter much, just that he never seems to finish anything, always takes shortcuts.

Wife gave him an ultimatum, (hopefully she will stick to it but I'm not gonna hold my breath)

EXTREMELY frustrated at the system right now.....

sosmomof6's picture

Ok, so I know last time people thought I was wrong for how I felt about the situation with BM, but today I really do need to vent and blow off steam.

Contempt of custody hearing was today. Even though DH requested me to come in to be a potential witness, they denied it, even though it says you can bring other parties if you feel it will be helpful. So all of this is coming from what DH said happened.

Sneaky Stepson

Dawn-Moderator's picture

I went in ss's room to put his clean laundry away and to get his bedding to wash and I happened to glance over at some storage tubs that he has. They have his old action figures and stuff in them.

I am planning on having a garage sale this summer and I thought I would see if there was anything that he didn't want. So, I opened the lid of one of the tubs and the first thing I saw was a cell phone! It wasn't mine, it wasn't Dh's and ss doesn't have one(that we know of). I tried to turn it on but it either didn't work or the battery was dead.

what is bb's motivation? and what will make her stop?!

lmdavi0's picture

seriously. why is bb so hell-bent on causing ripples? they have been over for nearly 10 years and still, she can't just let things be. she has to constantly bring up past shit and she harps on absolutely every detail she can squeeze from sd after our weekend visits. from 'causing sd to have a complex because we asked her to take care of her belongings' to being mean to because we said she might need braces! i mean, really. and you know what else she bitched about, ladies? the fact that i told sd to wipe from front to back!!!! seriously.

WHAT DO BIOMOMS VENT ABOUT???

bonusmom's picture

HEY DOES ANYONE EVER WONDER WHAT THE BIOMOMS VENT ABOUT, I MEAN WE ALL BITCH AND MOAN ABOUT BIOMOMS ALL THE TIME...ITS FUN AND IT HELPS..BUT DO ANY OF YOU EVER WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY THINK, NOT THAT I REALLY CARE BUT IT WOULD BE NICE TO OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY...MAYBE IT WOULD PUT A FEW THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE, I WOULD LIKE TO FIND A SITE FOR BIOMOMS JUST TO SHED A LITTLE LIGHT...

HOW DO YOU DO IT?

kim1960's picture

How, how, how do you other SM's keep from emailing or calling BM's when you have had it? I have been keeping my mouth shut for months while she has screwed us over, messed with ss and heaped emtional and mental abuse on us and ss waiting for the court date. After her latest email to DH this morning I am ready to explode! I would love to give her a piece of my mind. I know it wouldn't do any good but it sure as hell would make me feel better to get it all out.

WHEN WILL IT END..???

bonusmom's picture

I haven't been here for awhile hubby and I moved to a different city and started new jobs and what not....my life is finally getting back to normal even the crap from the ex...so the story goes...I got home from work and checked my messages and of course the one voice no one wants to here the EX>>>she left a message for my hubby to call her as they needed to talk she wanted to give us prices on dance classes for sd...which is a whole issue for me because about a year ago we offered to pay for dance class the only thing I asked for was for biomom to either pick up or drop off, appar

SS will NOT run the show!

didddos's picture

I posted last week about how SS refused to come for visitation because he would have been grounded by DH for behavior and failing school and lying about his completing homework. DH could have fought it, but decided not to force SS.

SS called last weekend. We were out of town. He said, "Dad, will you come get me? I want to come to your house for the weekend." It was not our weekend. I'm not sure what happened, but SS was not pleased with BM.

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