we've made a discision...
hi to all,
- Read more about we've made a discision...
- QUINJAI3's blog
- 2 comments
- Log in or register to post comments
Create your own personal blog and start sharing what's on your mind. Blogs are your own personal space for venting, asking questions, sharing your experiences, posting your favorite recipes, discussing your favorite shows, etc. This is your space to use as you please. You can manage your own blog posts as well as control the commenting on them.
When posting blogs, remember to add meaningful tags to your posts in order to help others find your blog posts when searching. This also helps you find your blogs later. Tags are fully searchable and allow you to organize your blogs.
Start your blog now!
hi to all,
Now I will fill in some gaps, in list form, for all of you who have been kind enough to read this stuff so far.
It's been stated that the girl needs held. Indeed. We've done the therapist thing, and shrinks, and tests, some meds, etc.
Dau unmarried with infant. Ex boyfriend thinks it is not his. Now, she is thinking about telling him the baby is his. The ex was controlling. I feel that would be asking for more trouble. I say leave it alone.
Anybody????
My ex husband is an awesome and loving man.
I mean REALLY. He is devoted as a father, and a friend, and a son, and a brother, etc.
We married WAY TOO YOUNG. That was our crime. We communicated badly, fought for no reason, and couldn't understand each other. WHAT A MONSTER. (joking)
Anyway, we separated and divorced, and realized we are way better friends than lovers. We are even better parents now without all the animosity.
It's been a few days since my last post.
I have avoided making a new post, actually, because I've felt a few of you needed to vent a bit more than I. My friend "goingcrazy" in particular. If you've not yet read her posts, please take a moment to do that. Afterwards, I'd like you to take another moment...and pray for both her family and for her. I am humbled by her strength, and her reaction to certain recent events. This is a tried and true woman, mother, and friend.
With that said, here goes.
well today is my step daughters 6th birthday,
I'm hiding in the bedroom, I'm pretending to take a nap...shhhh..cause if everyone figures out I'm really awake they will be all over me. This is the only way I can get a little peace, right now my wonderful strong managerial husband is out hiding himself too, except he hides in his office behind the computer screen, meanwhile the kids are running haphazardly through the house and it is a wreck..but I am determined not to go out there...if its a mess so be it...its his turn to run things and if everything is falling apart...i'm not responsible...right?
I've been talking to a counselor on and off to try and help me figure out, not so much how to deal with the situation I'm in, but how I got into it in the first place....
Anyway, one of the things I have a tendency to do, which based on some of the blogs I've been reading, I'm not the only one....is to do too much or feel guilty about not doing enough to the point of exhaustion.
This isn't really a step issue, but a divorced dealing with my own ex and the kids issues. Its a bit long to explain, but I could sure use some good advice.
I don't know where else to turn you guys! I'm so frustrated I've almost been brought to tears twice.
First, I'm sorry I haven't posted the last couple of days ... Thursday is date night and today I was just busy working, but I will get to everyone's stuff tonight, I promise.