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First I want to say that I am so glad to have stumbles across this website. This is all new to me and I do need advice. I've been with my Fiance for a year now and he has a 17 year old daughter that lives with him, which lives with us now. Us being Myself of course, lol and I have a 23 year old son working his way through college, he is a very respectful, caring considerate young man. I also have a 20 year old son still finding himself has ADHD disrespects me now and again but would never and has never disrespected my Fiance'.
Had some drama last time SD16 was here. She tried to mess up our plans to get a new house. It didn't work, but I'm anxious about her coming around again. After last time, she told her father she wasn't coming over again for a long time, but I don't know if it was true or just another empty threat. I'm hoping beyond hope that she meant it. They are due over here again this weekend and I don't know if I can handle two days of that little brat in my house. It's only Wednesday and I'm already having anxiety attacks over it.
I googled "My husband's ex-wife is unbearable..."
I'm not sure what I was even hoping for. I was broken and lost. My husband's ex-wife was causing so much havoc in my life that I was ready to walk away.
I stumbled upon this site because someone else had felt the EXACT same way as me.
Our lawyer called today and she has received the counter suit/complaint from BM's lawyer about us asking for 50/50 time. I am anxious to see what she has in her complaint. The lawyer said of course we will not like what she has to say but she is getting them into the mail to us so we will be getting them before weeks end.
So I've been helping F pull together documents for upcoming meeting with lawyer, under the idea that the more we do ahead of time the less we're doing at 250 an hour.
Filling out the "custody agreement" document, not like she's going to sign it or anything, but it's a starting point right? This became F's personal "wish list" for custody, and actually ended up being pretty fun to talk through for both of us....
The parties agree that:
The custody of the children shall be as follows:
Legal custody:
will be granted to father
Dad I guess you aren't going to email me back. My head is still hurting from this stress you are causing. I'm going to bed in 5 minutes and don't want to talk to you except through an email. You are hurting me bad and pushing me away big time. At least my mom cares about my feelings!
SS
Of course "he" only wants to talk to BF through email...so that BM can respond and pretend to be SS and say what SHE feels but try to make it sound like it's coming from SS.
BF got an email from BM asking him to call her and speak to SS. Well, how is he supposed to call when she doesn't have a phone? So he called BM's parents' house and asked if she was around. BM's mother said no...which started into a 20 minute conversation on BM's mother's opinion on how BF shouldn't "take SS from BM". She kept saying that SS has always been taken care of. Yes, maybe by them, but not by BM.
Well, she hasn't repled so i guess i know where i stand. I knew they would be in her ear i just thought maybe i could reach an emotional time we had together!
Stupid hey!
I wanted to post just a note!
I am thankful that I came across this site and I am able to vent and look for help and give help to people in the same situations!!
Hopefully we can all help each other
Although their birthday involved a family camping trip that ended up in a huge family fight, future sd's and ss with his spouse and two young kids, once again poor twins, they feel so sad never get included god forbid the future stepgrandkids want me to pick them up! causes a reaction that was like a 6 year old throwing a tantrum.
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