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So....BM and FH are using the courts to help settle their issues.
Actually...all issues were settled in a Separation Agreement that they worked on together last summer until, that is, FH refused to the amount of spousal support she demanded.
BM took FH to court.
In Canada we have 3 'cushions' before the couple ends up in court. Case Conference, Settlement Conference, Trial Management Conference...then court.
So the whole issue with FH going into BM's house caused a major blowup..I really really regret moving out of my place..I had a beautiful 2 bedroom condo..and was so happy there, I got with FH and we moved into a 3 bedroom apt. because he had SS.
I sold ALL my furniture and have no $$ to move or buy anything. The only thing I have is a tv, and my daughter's new bedroom set.
Well, it's official...BM has told my husband that she's moving 40 minutes away by June 30th. This would mean that our summer plans are now forced to change & that after summer, BM will have SD8 full-time (us every other weekend). Amazing that it's happened so fast considering that just last week she was telling my husband that it could be another year before she moves! What a liar! Luckily, it wasn't such a big surprise because we never believe a word she says.
FH has to pickup/dropoff SS2 at BM's house. In the beginning..he would go in and wait in her living room until SS was ready. I told him there is no need for this, he should be ready before he gets there..if you call her to tell her you are on your way. So he agreed and supposedly started waiting outside at her front door. Even though he says "it's not that a big of a deal if I go in and wait".
So I'm on the way to my gym last night with SS6 to actually cancel my membership (it's too expensive, I never go and for $50.00 a year I can join the gym at work). So I'm driving about a block away and I see this these two girls walking..one of them had these TIGHT bright pink sweats on and her AZZ was HUGE and jiggly and dimpled and it was one of those ..all the traffic was staring and you KNOW everyon was thinking "WTF does that idiot have on and why would she walk out of the house like that?" LOL! So I'm laughing and like GROSS!
Have we missed anything??????
Proposed Access
From 20 June till SS second birthday
Saturday 20 June 2009 – Saturday 11 July 2009
4pm Saturday till 12pm Sunday, weekly
Saturday 18 July 2009 – Saturday 15 August
4pm Saturday till 2pm Sunday, weekly
Saturday 22nd August 2009 - till Birthday
4pm Saturday till 4pm Sunday, weekly
ok, so I was dreading the graduation tomorrow night and lo and behold BM saves the day by posting a blog that she is afraid of my H and what he is going to do to her tomorrow. Now my H can be annoying at times, but he doesn't have an abusive I'll hit a woman bone in his pudgy sexy body.
So I shared the blog with my H and he said you know what...I'm not going. I'm so done with them.
My DH and I have decided together that we need marriage counseling. He doesnt understand my feelings as a stepparent and doesnt understand how stepfamily is different from nuclear family. This is his first experience with stepfamily where I myself come from one and know it's struggles all too well. This Saturday will be our 3rd session. The therapist has asked us to write down 10 values on two topics, one being marriage and the other parenting. It was easy to come up with my values for marriage as I've been aware of those for some years.
to this site! I just finished a 6 month long job and am now home, waiting for the next project. It's amazing how cathartic it is to read everyone's blogs - whether I can commiserate or just say a prayer for someone or just laugh! Even when it's quiet (or as quiet as can be here) I'm online all the time! Does anyone else surf here all day on and off?? Please tell me I'm not cray-zeeeeee!
ahhhh! I just received an email from MIL about planning a bday party this weekend for SD16. The same SD16 that has canceled two previous bday parties at the last minute.