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Dudebug and I were waiting in the car while DH exchanged the propane tank. Dudebug started to ask a question and w/o thinking just said, "Mom, why is .....?" He stopped and I looked at him. Poor guy had a stricken look on his face, like he had done something awful and was expecting the worst.
I answered his question then said "Ya know, Dudebug, lots of kids call their stepmoms "mom". And you can too, either on purpose or accident. Its ok." He said "ok", but still calls me TheCharm.
I've been lurking/reading here for about 6 months, and finally decided to jump in & join up!
Thanks for allowing me to join the forum! I wish I had found it 3 years ago!
So dh called cs to find out why bm was only paying 5 dollars a day for day care and pocketing all the money we pay her. Turns out that we had to file a modification, and they send her paper work as well.
I'm glad that I found this web site, hopefully it will help. To start I have a ten year old step son, and I daughter that I am the biological father to. I'm not sure how to put this, but I can no longer tolerate my step son. I feel terrible about it, but there is no way of sugar coating it. He has sever ADHD and every day is just such a grind. Its almost like he lives in constant opposition to the rest of us, including his mother. I don't know how to shake this feeling or if I even can.
1. Avoid all of her (Ex-Witch) phone calls and treat her like she has the plague. Avoid her at all cost.
Make the hubby take care of all the business between them. He is the one she is after anyways talk to.
2. Only have them (Skids) over when hubby is home. Which who they are there to visit with anyways - DH.
Some background: I have two SD's. My husband shares custody with BM. He has them 52%, her 48%. BM also has two younger children with two other men. She had her most recent child in April and has been on maternity leave. BM called DH yesterday to let him know that she would be putting the kids on free lunches at school because she was not going to go back to work until the baby was in school. Since BM moved of the district a year ago we register the kids for school and have all the paperwork in DH's name.
I have decided that if this doesn't work out, i am never getting married again. I don't even think I ever want to have a boyfriend again. Relationships are too much work as it is without throwing Schildren into the arena.
My darling hubby made his daughter go with us to the beach and she was a total brat. Nothing was good enough for her and she kept calling me booble head. 
I keep trying to be nice but it's so hard sometimes. He spent most of his time there on the cell making business calls. I wish he could hear her talking so mean to me and my sweet little baby. Then he could make her stop. I don't like running to him every time she says or does something mean.
What is about kids and their complete avoidance of soap? Are they trying to commit a new type of suicide? Severus has been told that he needs to do dishes everynight (by DH) because he takes forever to clear the table and Harry shouldn't have to wait for him. So last night when I'm cooking, I needed a spoon to stir the meat. Nothing in the dish washer is clean!!!! Severus didn't use soap. The rule I have is if the dishes don't get clean, you need to hand wash them using a sinkful of hot water and soap.
this all goes back about 4 years when the ss shows up in me and my new husbands life. just like that his moms done with him.
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