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The cycle...

MeanOleMe's picture

Sometimes I feel like the ugly circle will never end. This is how my circle rolls.

SD16 (normally, but also SD14 at times) does something or asks to do something, and DH either nothing, or allows it.

I get mad.

I don't talk to him for a day or two.

We argue for two days, because I am "wrong" and the way he handled it was "right".

I don't talk to him for a day or two.

We talk.

He says he sees my side, and we agree on what is allowed, what isn't allowed, and how it will be handled next time.

It's our anniversary, FH doesn't remember and SD comes tonight.

MollyBee's picture

Arghhhh. I know I am going to sound selfish and like a bitch but I don't even care anymore. I already know that FH forgot our anniversary, he would have mentioned it this morning before work if he remembered. Plus, as soon as he gets off work he has to pick up SD8 for the weekend. Yay. (can't you feel the sarcasm???) That means we get her again in 2 weeks, which is my birthday. I know BM switches the weekends around on purpose to spoil any chance for me to have a good time. In our 3 years together we have had SD8 for everyone of my birthdays and our anniversary.

UPDATE: SD'S PAPER FOR SCHOOL! HER GRADE IS IN. (LOL)

emptyrisksagain's picture

Below you will find a previous post about a paper that SD16 (almost 17) wrote for class. She is a junior. Please keep that in mind.

But this post is about her grade for the paper....SHE GOT AN A. Plz, kill me now. Just GIVE UP on public school. That is all.

Bad visit with the stepmonster

juliannbaker's picture

Well hubby and I went to go visit the stepdaughter at her house to try to resolve the issues she has with me face to face because hubby has said for a long time that if we go to her place where we are face to face then it is less likely she will be as hateful as people can be when they are texting or calling. We show up and pull up right behind her and her hubby and mine gets out of the car and tells her we need to resolve all this and she says no I don't and I am not going to and that she has nothing to say to me and that she doesn't want to hear anything I have to say.

New here and really need advice!

scapegoatmom's picture

Most of story on my previous post. I am seriously at my wits end...until a month ago? I was "Mom2", we would shop together, she talked to me...Now? I am the cause of everything! I am the reason dad grounds her, I am the reason she has to clean up after herself, I am the reason...I am a bitch, I am bossy, I am just evil.

My son has been gone for 3 years now and I have only recently sold my house and came to live here (in May)...I am really wondering if I am ready for this...my child did not act this way at all. I am justj about to tears...

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