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Last-Wife's picture

DH is home from his business trip. So much happened in the three days he was gone. And I dealt with it all by myself, and followed his "don't call me" edict he issued Wednesday night. I know the skids called him, but not me. I stuck it out. I'm sure the skids told him how sick I was. I know we have many things to talk about today, but I am happy to report that he spent the day laying in bed with me, watching TV and rubbing my back. I can't remember the last time we had a day that centered around me! (I should be sick more often! LOL)

So very PROUD of FH today!

RustyHalo's picture

We went to SD10's soccer game and after the game BM came up to him and told him she needed his half of the money for SD10's soccer. FH was prepared for this even though he told her that he would agree to pay for BOTH girls to play softball ($140.00) IF she paid for SD10's soccer ($60). This conversation happened last fall.

How many of you?

LMR120's picture

Question for you step parents on here. How many of you take care of your partners kids when they arent around? I see a lot of blogs on here talking about all the things that you guys do for your hubby and his BM when it comes to the kids and i dont understand why. I have a BF with two kids and they are not at the house unless he is. If he has to work late then he calls BM and tells her he will not be able to take the kids. I dont go get them for him. If he goes out of town for business i do not continue with the set visitation schedule. I do not take them to anything i.e.

My 5 year old ss said he's going to kick my ass......go figure!!!

PeytonsMom09's picture

Well, I have the most awesome fiance who has a 5 year old son. We just had a beautiful babygirl 6 months ago!! His BM is the biggest drunk douche that I could ever come across....I am engaged to the most wonderful, honest, loyal and hardworking man that I have ever known and his sons mother is a *i*ch!!! After cheating on him several times and leaving him for another man.....she is mad that he has moved on and is now happy!!! So I guess that she thinks having her son be utterly disrespectful to me that will make me leave his father!!!

Should I or Should I not?

cantmissamy's picture

I want to call child protective on dbm, she is yet again letting strange men come around ss and her bio, without care of their background. She has once again put the "man in her life, or "the flavor of the month" come before ss.. She has let down ss once again by saying that she will take him this weekend, but only to come back with it is only for tonight only as "flavor of the month comes first."I know what I have said in the past about not careing about what dh does, but I am sorry for that...

They aren't even here yet and I'm dreain' the drama

sadstep's picture

Well, bf is flying back from working in NY tonight at 8:00. He goes 1st thing in am to get skids and I'm dreading it already. I have been alone for two weeks straight during which it was my birthday and his birthday. I guess I'm whining or venting. But you know they have their mother and I am alone. My family doesn't live here. I know I know, but I just want to get this out... I don't want to have his kids the entire weekend. Saturday and Sunday night. I work two jobs and next week I'll be back at it and will have NO time.

Drugs and step children

olderstepmom's picture

I have recently found out that our 17 year old has been smoking pot, that is hard enough to deal with the trust is gone and everything, today however I have found out that his older brother (13 years older then him) my oldest step son is the one that got him high for the first time.... I am livid. I can't believe their father is so calm, how dare this adult child turn our younger children onto drugs.... I am anger behind belief.... I want to ring this mans neck.....

TGIF!!! What are your weekend plans?

onehappygirl's picture

Countdown 2-1/2 hours until I can leave my beige cell. Truelight, Spongebob and Starr are meeting me at BJ's tonight (the bar and grill, the other kind will come later). Afterwards, we will drive home and then hopefully, it will be near time for Spongebob and Starr's father to come pick them up. After that - get out some shot glasses, some bourbon, some loud techno music, turn up the heat, get naked and BAM!!!! Let the kid-free weekend begin!!

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