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Hubby and I are at it again. Sounds ominous doesn't it? It's not nearly so scary though and it isn't us that are at "it".
BM moved into a 3 bedroom apartment a few weeks ago and now has the room for all 3 of her children, who by the way all have different fathers. She is not working and finally got custody of her other two children from their fathers. H has had full physical custody of SD for 7 years now. BM took H to court last year for custody of child but the judge said no the child has been with the father for 7 years now and she is disabled so i will not grant for her to be moved to you unless you can prove the father is unfit....
Am I in the minority of people who didn't get a valentine from SD12? Not even a text message even after I sent a message first. SS14 replied back with a message.
BM has not seen the children since October '08. When she failed to show up for her second scheduled supervised visit with SD's then and never showed for the child support hearing the commissioner said not to allow her contact with the SD's. Christmas '09 she sends a card. We contacted the social worker who worked our case and told him what the commissioner had said and he said we didn't have to and shouldn't give it to them until she goes through the proper channels. So we didn't. She sent another one for Valentine's Day. We put it back with the other one.
SD12 layed across dad's lap last night watching tv. Is this normal?
After having a heart to heart conversation with SS25 last week about being on the hunt for a full time job (a conversation that brought him to tears because he's "tired of being a loser"... his words, not mine) I had to force DH to get up at 4 AM this morning to go tell SS25 to turn the freakin' tv down. If it were me, I would think that staying up till 4 AM on a weeknight when I know I need to be up early to look for a job is a BAD IDEA. But not SS25. DH called him this morning to see where he's gone to apply so far, and he didn't answer.
I am a BM to twin girls and I am also a SM. I love my H to death but thanks to his lovely children i am on the verge of getting divorced. I have known my H for 6 years and been married almost 3. One would think since i have been around so long that there would be no major problems!? Well, at least thats what I tell myself or maybe it's more of a hope.
I finally had enough. Last night, as usual, I was the only one awake in the house. Trying to figure out why I am beginning to get depressed and what to do about it. Trying not to focus on how lonely and pissed off I feel more and more nowdays. Feeling like the worst person on earth as I google 'I really don't like my stepdaughter'. And I found this site. and I really don't LIKE my stepdaughter. BUT reading through some of these posts have really helped. It really helps to know I am not the worst woman on earth, and that other people feel this way.
as usual. BM is ramping up her bull crap for the summer again this year. Even after all the bull of last year - causing a new court order to go into effect that specifically gave DH more visitation and ordered her to stop all attempts at parental alienation in Sept 09 - she is at it again.
OK! So I thought we were having a breakthrough with ss12. I was ignoring him and so he tried hard to get my attention, so I only validated positve behavior! well it worked for a total of 6 days!! The F'ing little brat is back !!