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I'm new here and thought i'd give you guys some insight into my relationship. I've been with my husband for 5 yrs and married for 2 1/2 yrs. when i first met him everything seemed good and i got along great with his sons at that time they were 6 and 7. 1 year down the road i start getting phone calls from his ex and she tells me that she is happy with her fiancee and things are great and she is moving on and i had no idea where this was coming from. eventually i find out that my husband boyfriend then had slept with her 1 yr into our relationship more than once.
I was just reviewing my blog, wow, been two years since I last posted on this forum.
Unfortunately, I feel the need to vent once again, guess who is back in my house?
For two years, I have been able to keep this good for nothing kid (SS, now 22 yrs old) from mooching off of me. He has either been in jail, or living elsewhere in that time frame.
DH pays 300 monthly....and I thought that was too much bc SD is 14...but I am reading on some posts that DH pays up to 1,200 monthly....is this for one child? I guess I should stop complaining.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He had been separated for 1.3 years when we met. He and his Ex have two children - boy 10, girl 13. When he and I met, she had a boyfriend that she had been with for nine months. His children and I hit it off pretty well and have gotten along. Last year, my bf learned that her bf was moving in with her and the kids. He objected to this and within a week, she told my bf that her bf was getting his own place. This was right before Xmas. He and I took the kids and went to visit his family some 6 hrs from here.
Once again its Christmas and all the skids are lining up to get their Christmas bucks!! Yea for free money and free stuff!!! Its awesome how they can put on that FAKE ASS face and just put their little hands out there!!! 21, 20, 17. Screw 1200 a month, we want MORE!!!
I thought about packing up DH's things and telling him he no longer lives with me. Yes, I hate SD(12) so much that I actually considered giving up my marriage just to get rid of her. Not just SD of course but BM and the way DH deals with them. Even though I am still mad as hell I realize that she does come only 1-2 nights per month and I will just try to stay out of the house rather than give up on our family. What led to this?
So tomorrow we get ss13...for 11 straight LONG days. Yea. I'm so excited about thi Christmas. Let's see, the last Christmas ss spent with us at my parents house he stormed outside and cried. Granted he was about 8, so hopefully that won't happen again. Actually, it shouldn't be that bad. For one, I'm SICK!! That means I have a reason to hide out and sleep in my room all weekend. Crazy how I'm glad to be sick just because it means I won't have to deal with ss.
I posted a week ago about how BM sent me an email claiming my SO tried to sleep with her. I have been trying to follow the advice and ignore it, but it's been hard.
SO has filed for a TRO, but the judge wanted more information, so I was forced to read the email again. The good thing that came out of it was that I realized that when SO told her personal information about me it was when we first started dating and not in some insidious way. He shouldn't have, but that was YEARS ago.
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