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Ok, so we have policy to basically avoid each other at all costs. So why the heck is BM tagging people in my pictures on facebook? Facebook asks me if I want to allow her to tag my photos. :sick:
Why is she even looking at my pics, self torture?
So i know that I probably shouldn't have. It may come back to bite me in the butt. But I have had enough of her carziness. So here's the story.
SO took the middle daughter to her Religion Class tonight (how ironic...to bad it's not doing her any good.) She had a "talk" with her about my feelings and all her lying. She said she will change "once again." She honestly doesn't give a crap and when SO was telling me what she said about lies I just rolled my eyes because is was a lie to cover up another lie. Of course he is upset with me. At this point I don't care if I ever see his kids again. I bend over backwards for not only SO, but his kids and even their BM.
We've known for quite some time that BM was going to abandon the kids ONCE AGAIN, but she has never confirmed when she was leaving. FH found out this evening from the kids that she told them this past weekend she was moving hundreds of miles and 8 hours away......THIS UPCOMING WEEKEND. Not only did she not tell FH that she was moving this weekend, but this weekend is her scheduled weekend with the kids and he has to work. She hasn't said one word to him.
Wow I really am needing to vent today....
only four months. She graduates in 4 months. Then military! Woohoo! They (dh & sd) know that there is no way she could stay here past graduation (if she makes it that far). So it looks like they are looking at military as her best option. It will give her training and the money she would need for college. Plus it may do her some good. If she can stick it out.
Warning Signs for a Teen with Anger Problems
It has gotten to the point that I can't even make eye contact with the skids, they just seem to irk me that much. They really aren't any more annoying than anyone else's kids, my own included, but I am constantly wishing they would GO AWAY. They always seem to want to hang out with the adults, and maybe this is where the problem lies.
Is 9 too young for girls to have mood swings? My SD9 has been so moody lately. Mom lives across the country and sees her twice a year. So guess what that means? We get her 24/7 and I mean that literally. She doesn't go to friend's houses or even grama's. I just need a break and can't take it anymore! I have a hard time loving a child who isn't mine, God do I try though. I spend a lot more time w her than DH bc he works late some nights. I just don't know how much more I can take- she doesn't even look at me as a mother figure...at all. Sorry, just had to vent.
not talking about skids. Talking about in us step parents. One of the posters here was trying to say that it was not "normal" to not feel anything for skids who get hurt etc....well I have news for those of you who feel that way...yes it can be normal. When you have endured the years of crap that some of us have...yes it is entirely possible.
I was hoping I didn't need to be back here, but the baby momma drama doesn't end.