My boyfriends daughter (15) is going to be living with her father full time because her mother is moving to England with her husband and they both decided it is best if she stayed and finished high school here. I haven't bonded with her yet but she's only been respectful and well mannered so I'm not worried about bickering or arguing with her. I don't live with my boyfriend but he had told me (before we knew his BM was relocating) that he wanted me to move in with him. I was really excited and happy because he's the love of my life and I really wanted to be a family under one roof. A couple of days ago, we were leaving palm springs and I mentioned to my boyfriend and his daughter how excited I was to be living there soon. My boyfriend gave me a glare and it was uncomfortable. When we got the a gas station my bf gave his daughter cash to get drinks and he told me that we had to pause the moving in together while his daughter gets comfortable without her mom and SD (we all get along) and that his focus was his daughter for the next few months of her sophomore year. I understood but still felt hurt and brought it up to him when we were alone. I asked him why I couldn't help her get settled alongside him and he told me that his daughter had told him it was stressful enough without her mom and she didn't want to feel like I was replacing her. I feel like his daughter doesn't like me anymore and I feel insecure. Any advice?