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The talk!

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Well we had a talk about meeting the kids as his "girlfriend." I have met them 5-10 times before. I am a bit younger than he is so he is worried about how the relationship between me and them will be. His exact words were "treat them like kids... not like childish... but like they are kids and you aren't." He has a son who is going to be 16 in two months and a daughter who is 13. I have never played this role in the lives of teenagers so I am really looking for help on this. I really want to get this relationship right with them. Anybody out there have any tips?

anyone on here a little house on the prairie fan?? I need your help!!!

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I really need to know what Charles Ingalls theory or school of marriage was... so and I split up a while ago for anyone wondering... I am now starting to see someone else... (who has two children) he keeps referring to Charles's theory or school of marriage and I need to know what that is or where I can find out what that is... HELP!!!

sugar overload

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So BM wanted us to bring SS to the parade she was walking in so that he could ride in their float thing. We decided that he would have fun doing that so we agreed. We were also bring BD because we didn't want to find a babysitter and we knew she would also have fun. We asked BM to let us know what time and where to meet ASAP. At 3:45 she text and said "just head to my work now" I told her that we had nothing ready and that we needed to know ahead of time so that we could get the kids packed and ready. I also asked her why we had to be to her work at 4 if the lineup wasn't until 6:30.

Don't mean to be annoying

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but I had to share the newest excuse from BM. We have had SS since last Sunday. SS hasn't seen her for nine days now. He was supposed to go to her house last night but she called and asked if we could keep him til friday. Her excuse???

"I CUT THE CORNEA OF MY EYE WITH MY CONTACT"

I asked her how she did that and her response to that was priceless

"I was getting a massage at massage envy and I guess I was pushing my face against the face rest too hard and my contact moved in my eye and ended up cutting it."

ARE YOU SERIOUS?????? WOW

I hate to call names...

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but BM is a lazy, lying, self absorbed bi*ch! In april SS5 had his kindergarten round up. He was supposed to have his screening before he turned 4 but BM NEVER did it. The deadline to have it in is July 1st for him to start school this fall. In April SO, BM, and I had a huge discussion/fight. Somewhere in there, SO sent a text that said "When does SS go in for screening?" BM responds with "WTF again none of your concern he has a screening apt I will bring him to thanks."

UPDATE on joint bday!

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Well, As far as the interaction between BM and I, It went fine. We got along and we both had an ok time. As far as BM and her hosting ability... that is another story. Here is a list of things that she did that I couldn't help but shake my head at:

Cut the cake while SS was playing out back. No bday candles, no "happy birthday", and SS didn't even get a piece of cake because it was gone before any of us even knew it was being cut

Didn't want anything to do with SS... yelled at him for "Bugging" her while she was talking to her friends

I lost...

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Well I lost the battle of the bday party. We are doing a joint bday party for SS5. I really didn't want to have a joint one because BM and I were not getting along. It was a few months ago that we had our huge falling out (not the first one either) and I haven't seen or spoken to her since. Now she is going out of her way to talk to me and is being really nice and helpful. I know not to trust that this will last. She is always the nicest right before a "storm." I on the other hand have a really hard time not being nice... to anyone.

Mother's Day...

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Suprisingly enough my Mother's Day was actually pretty nice. I didn't get anything because my daughter is obviously too young... and my SO isn't one to buy gifts. He is the type to give me cash and say "hey spend it on yourself." To be totally honest, I really don't need anything to feel special. SO woke up with DD and I and we spent the entire day on the floor playing. We spent the whole day together just the three of us! SS was with his mom so the day was stress free, relaxing, and much needed. I loved having the time with SO and DD and not worry about a thing.

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