The SKs are seeing a new therapist, because OSD doesn't want to see anyone I know. Unfortunately after 30 years I pretty much know all of them.
This SW is one of my old supervisors. Since I will not be participating I wrote her an email identifying all the issues that I know BM, SO and SKs will not admit to. Especially the PARENTING issues.
In writing everything down I came to a lot of realizations about Thier issues and family dynamics that were enlightening. Putting it down in writing was very therapeutic for me.
What I learned was BM is "BPD"
OSD is the "Golden Child"
SO is the " Codependent Enabler"
YSD is the " Scape goat"
And all of them are stuck in their roles in Thier dysfunctional family.