BMs ex BF and I talked on the phone for an hour yesterday. We shared stories of our experiences with feral spawn and BMs encouragement of their bad behavior.

BF had it much worse then me because I limited my interactions and communication with her as much as possible.

A good one was after YSD punched him in the face, BM defended YSD and accused BF if shoving YSD against the wall and throwing hot candle wax in her face. That's the night he kicked them out 

I heard BM on the phone with SO that night where she admitted YSD and OSD attacked him.

BF told me how BM refused to have an adult conversation with him unless OSD was present and BM would get mad when he refused. 

BM would also tell him when he complained about OSDs sexually inappropriate attire that I was the one who kept buying it for her. We laughed because both BF and I were the ones who would throw it in the trash when we found it. 

On another note crazy BM has been refusing to respond to SOs messages about YSD starting services. SO called the school counselor who called BM because they want services for her as well. 

BM was livid of course and her awesome response to SO is that she is against YSD getting services because he had no right to ask for services in his home because he admits he can't control YSD in his home without getting her permission first. 

I can't wait until the workers get to meet and talk to crazy BM.