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Wicked stepmo.'s picture

OSD plans on gracing us with her presence, because she can not figure out how to activate her iphone and I refuse to help so SO will have to take her to the store so they can do it. Also she is waiting for her shipment of clothes to come in.

Since I am completely over all of it SO and OSD are in for a pleasant surprise. I can be the sweetest person you ever met until you have pushed me. Then I push back it's easy when you no longer give a flying furry. OSD has was outed by me a long time ago. I so much as told her that and one thing I can promise you is I always stick to my word.  I maintained a civil politeness for SOs sake until he showed me that he was willing to step all over me iny home, that I pay for in order to appease the princess.  That's a level of disrespect I will not tolerate.

I look forward to telling SO In front of OSD that I do not want to spend time with him because OSD is too loud and obnoxious and generally unpleasant to be around and it's hard to look at him or have any respect for him while he is being demasculated by a 14 year old. 

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Peach's picture

You sound like you have just had it.  I read back on a few of your blogs, and I am just astounded.  Get the lot of them out of your house.  It would all be different if your spouse was trying to handle his daughter, but he doesn't care.  He honestly needs to care more about her wellbeing and be a father.  If she runs to her mother's house, so be it.  She is going to end up in jail, overdosing, or pregnant... or all of the them.  It is sad. 

Wicked stepmo.'s picture

Amen to that, coddling her and justifying her behavior is not going to do anything but make her issues worse, while creating a narcissistic monster 

Wicked stepmo.'s picture

It's a huge FU to me, not just the drinking. But SO and the kids were with me 2 years ago when I got a call that exH home burned down from wait for it.....a candle!!!

DS was in hysterics because his pets died. Then SO has the audacity to argue with me and freak out like a lunatic because I say no to giving twatwaffle a $10 candle!!! Especially when she already got $750 worth of stuff.

Then come to find out he had been letting her burn candles in her room the week she was here!!!  So basically I have learned that SO is willing to keep secrets from me in order to placate his child, no matter who else those decisions effect. 

The level of disgust I feel towards him is undescribable at this moment in time. He has bigger problems than just his daughter now! He knows it too, because I am not good at hiding my feelings. I am just waiting for all parties to be present before I unleash my storm of pent up disgust on both of them.

Wicked stepmo.'s picture

Since I don't care if they leave, there is no reason for me not to tell her exactly what I think of her and that she is a selfish, obnoxious, rude child who is unpleasant to be around.  Just as I am going to let him know exactly what I think of him for allowing it.