Any thoughts on this
I have been stalking BMs social media and YSDs phone app. Not because I care about them or what they do but for my own selfish reasons and to not have any surprises.
No one is sure what BMs motivation is for keeping YSD. She doesn't like her. She can't deal with her behavior. She isnt getting any money for her and she hasn't filed for anything.
So it seems likely it is either a power play because services are now involved and she wants the control over thier involvement. Or she is prepping YSD as a potential witness in court when her and exBF go for custody. BM loves to play the he is abusive card that has been her MO with every baby daddy and every ex she has ever had.
YSD has been there 3 weeks the first two weeks BM was smothering her with love and attention as well as taking her places and doing things with her. BM loves to make it look like she is MOTY that's why she will post any interaction on FB.
The last week nothing and based on YSDs phone records BM has been leaving her home alone a lot. Also since YSDs behavior has likely gotten worse since she has been in the land of lawlessness. She no longer has any friends left. You can see her texting them and them not responding. I'm not surprised because most parents will let her come to their house one time and she is never invited back again.
So YSD is going to be home, ignored by BM with nothing to do for her 5 day school break. I can tell you from experience that is YSD is not kept busy in addition to making messes everywhere she is irritable and annoying because she has absolutely no idea how to entertain herself. If you address her behavior with her she will lose her shit and engage in a full blown outburst.
This will inevitably lead to more conflict between YSD and OSD as well as YSD and BM.
So my concern is I have been truly enjoying my peace and quiet and have many things planned coming up. How long before BM drops this kid back off on our doorstep?