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BM is getting re-married!!

What_did_i_just_sign_for's picture

Preved

Clapping

Yahoo

Dance 4

Drinks

Of couse that set SD20 off -- which is great because it's time the hostility went back where it belongs anyway.

I cannot WAIT until she starts getting all EXTRA about the wedding and watching SD20 lose her sh!t. LOL

#thatisall

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tog redux's picture

You might find she doesn't do the same thing with BM that she did with you and DH. I'm betting she will thrilled for her mother, and very engaged in all wedding planning. 

What_did_i_just_sign_for's picture

Yeah, she will probably be euphoric.  LOL

Her mom is a bigger Attention Vacuum than she is, so she usually bends to her will.  So you're probably right! 

Watch her father (who tried to hold his family together) not get the same respect when he re-marries someday.  :P 

With my luck, she'll be angry about the impending marriage but only lash out about it when she's home with us.  LOL

You're killin' me tog... *ROFL*

Missingme's picture

Exactly, stepdads are almost always embraced by the SDs, especially, because they see them as taking care of their mommy.  Seriously, while, honestly, I hate to burst your bubble, enjoy it while you can because SD will start liking him--they just do.  

Myss.Tique D'Off's picture

You at least have BM distracted for a while. I take that as a win for you! Dance 4

Missingme's picture

Okay, so why I'm glad you've gotten some momentary bliss off of this, don't get too blissful because SDs usually end up very quickly embracing their stepdads because they see them as a man who is taking care of their mama.  And, face it, women get along better with men.  If you haven't read Stepmonster, you need to.  Now, while your SD will probably really like her stepdad, she will always still dream of her mom and her dad back together, which is why you will still be the target of hatefulness.  You stood and, frankly, still stand in the way of her parents get back together.  In her mind, they are still together and will be physically, too, some day.  ;-)  Sucks, huh?  

Oh, and I totally agree that your SD needs some d!ck to distract her from you and her dad. Works wonders, well, that is until the guy breaks up with her because she's a biotch.  

Okay, so back to the celebration.  Enjoy it while it lasts!!!!!  :-D 

Harry's picture

A nice wedding present. Give her something to think about 

Livingoutloud's picture

We wish... it would mean stopping spousal support. Unfortunately she will not give up hefty alimony and won’t marry until alimony is over but also no one wants her. She is too crazy and mean. Oh lucky you 

hereiam's picture

BM is on her 6th marriage, so there really is someone for everybody!

But, yeah, if he's paying alimony, she won't re-marry until that expires.