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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 9:47am

i know i have been MIA lately...security reasons..name change and all that jazz...but it's Lynn123...i feel safe now... Biggrin ...anywho....back to blogging!!!!.....so for those of you who remember i blogged several weeks ago about DH offering a "pity baby", this is the follow up to that...bells and sirens went off last week...so, i was talking to DH about how i felt bad because i havent been able to take my girls to the beach since me and their dad (the exH) split up 3 years ago..i just simply could not afford it..until now...DH says to me "Welcome2bates, we will ALL go this summer".... :? my response was " what do you mean ALL?"...DH says "me, you, the girls, and spawn"....say what DH??????...I told DH no fucking way..spawn was not coming...i want a vacation to the beach with MY girls..that there was no way unless Hell frooze over that i would ever go anywhere as a "family"...that ship sailed into the Bermuda Triangle as far as i was concerned...besides DH took spawn to the beach last year WITHOUT me and my girls, so this year he expects me to take lil Norman Bates on MY vacation..????... :jawdrop: ...DH gets pissed at me and started on his rant...DH thinks that because he wants to "give me a baby' that I should try having a relationship with Norman... :sick: ....not in this life time...or the next....what part does DH not get??????

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Submitted by Aeron on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 9:53am

The part where he's trying to manipulate you and it's not working. I mean, his master plan has been set in motion, how can you be failing to fall in line with it silly girl?? He appealed to your mothering instinct, doesn't that make you all warm and fuzzy toward spawn? How could it not! Frigging dumbass.

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Submitted by Aeron on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 9:58am

Oh sweetie, I think it did a bit more than fizzle. I have this picture in my head of you as basically the iron-quilled porcupine when it comes to spawn and your H. And somehow H keeps thinking he can just wrap you in cotton batting to keep you from throwing said quills when he and his spawn are horrendous jerks.

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:02am

i think DH is starting to realize how much of what i say, i mean...i wasnt this stearn before all the shit went down 6 months ago...i will no longer be a walking doormat to DH or that spawn of his...

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Submitted by PeanutandSons on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 9:55am

So he gets to take private vacations with his kids.....but you can't take any with yours? There's that famous Disney dad double standard.

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 9:58am

bazinga!!!!....exactly...actually he has taken spawn to the beach twice since we have been together..i have taken my girls 0 times....his brat is not going....the end....

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:24am

i already have a dog, 2 cats, and a hamster....guess its time for me to get a horse... Wink

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:11am

SO glad you're here! I've missed you!

And I agree with everyone above - he's manipulating you and figures that if he offered you the "baby" that all of a sudden, you would feel obligated to like his kid and include him.

It's utter BULLSHIT that he had his own private vacation with his kid to the beach and yet when you mention taking your girls, he automatically includes his kid. NOT cool, DH.

Anyhow, I'm so glad you're back Smile

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:15am

i agree 1000%...DH thinks that a "baby" together will make me want to have something to do with Lil Norman and "we" could have a happy wittle family... :sick: .......and it feels soooo good to be back...i was having major withdrawls..i was nauseus and dizzy everyday i wasn't on here... Blum 3

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:04am

Yeah a baby isn't going to fix anything. It would probably make you crazier trying to keep the little spawn away from your newborn anyways!

I love the new name by the way! So fitting.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:59am

In all liklihood having a baby would just strengthen your desire to keep the little psycho away from your defenseless infant.

I like the above suggestion of saying that you really want all the kids to feel special so that's why you need to take your girls this year. Next year he can take Norman. I would offer that as my compromise instead of the family outing day.

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Submitted by princessmofo on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:25am

Plan and take the vacation. Without them. Period. I wouldn't even mention I was going until I was pulling out of the driveway. Turn about is fair play. He and demon seed went solo now its your turn.

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Submitted by princessmofo on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:36am

Seriously, Shaking. I would do that! I can be very cagey and calculated. I believe in the power of misinformation. By that, you say the opposite of what you intend just to see if it spreads like wildfire. }:) Quickest way to discover your allies and enemies.

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Submitted by MarriedaBalless... on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:35am

I agree with Mofo!

My DH wants to take a trip along the California and Oregon coast line this summer. I thought it was great until he told me he wanted to take SS16 Fatass with us. This kid LIVES to ruin fun times. He even tried to ruin our Cancun vacation last November with his smart-mouth, sullen, lazy, uninterested teenage attitude. I told DH that if he takes Fatass with us I refuse to go and if he insists on taking him anyway I will go to Kauai, HI and start looking for a place to live.

WHY do these men want to take these kids on every vacation KNOWING they will try to ruin it for everyone else.

GO, take YOUR girls and enjoy yourself.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 12:08pm

^^^NICE

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 2:21pm

Disneyfan, my DH thinks that he can fix this shit of a marriage he and spawn destroyed...and now he wants to throw in a "baby" to make me stay....i will admit, its tempting...but the damage is done...i still have my plan in place....

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 12:14pm

well Ill be sitting in Kitty Hawk with my girls and DH. I fully expect that SD should be back from BM's by then and I also fully expect BM to not send her back on the agreed to schedule and keep her til the end of summer. Because well you know BM does what ever the hell she wants and we just have to suck it up.

Last year I gladly sucked up not having her on vacation with us. What a pleasant week!

And Im sure I will be devastated that BM gets to do what ever she wants because DH never holds her responsible for her actions (much like what he does with SD) but I am sure Ill get over it while Im sitting on the beach!

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 2:18pm

when will you be in Kitty Hawk?...we need to plan a Steptalk meeting... Smile

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Submitted by welcome2BatesMotel2 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 2:18pm

well i fully plan on going with MY girls...and there will be NO spawn in site...no fucking way is THAT kid going anywhere with me...hell to the muther truckin NO...the end.... }:)