You are here

I swear I'm in some alternate universe

verysad's picture

So last night SO and are in our room and devilspawn tells him to come to her room, they need to talk. She tells him she's moving out in June plus assorted other bullshit. He comes back to the room and tells me. I'm like "good for her but I'm not living like this for 5 months" He gets pissy. He told me it was over but now wants to act like nothing happened and its cool. Nope sorry buddy. He has been sweet and nice. I don't care. Last night is a good example : its cold and rainy and devilspawn has her windows open. Its freaking cold upstairs. Im in my car headed to store, my daughter tells her to close the windows. She says OK. Hour later still open. I tell SO please ask devilspawn to close windows. I did but there still open. 30 min later windows still open. I tell him thx for asking her to close windows. He gets pissy and says now? WTF, YESNOW... Then gets up all pissed and then makes an excuse for her. PLEASE tell me : am I being nuts?

Comments

verysad's picture

Tausha I tried that Monday with regard to the lock she installed on her door and the bathroom door. He and I argued and he basically said its over. I try to avoid speaking to her as she ignores me. With my kids? In a hot damn minute. Good idea though.

furkidsforme's picture

This, 100,000%. I'd knock that fucking door in so fast her head would spin, and then I would haul them outside and throw them in a heap.

NO ONE locks me out of a room in MY HOUSE. SS17 got a wild hair up his 2 years ago and tried that shit, and his door was gone for almost 2 months. Privacy is a PRIVILEGE.

verysad's picture

You know what? You're right. Why am I letting this asshole dictate things in my house??! Ugh what have I let myself become?

verysad's picture

MarieJeanne, she installed a lock on the bathroom door and her bedroom door. SO keeps saying, I'm going to get a key... Its the final straw. He created this along with his ex. She's 19.5 FFS.