BM actually being nice?
Well this is shocking. My husband told BM no about the whole beach plan, he said he couldn't switch days. Then BM asked if it would be possible for her to just pick SD up at the beach and keep her for the week since he couldn't switch days. He told BM that didn't work for him, and she was actually nice about it. She said things like thanks anyway, and explained that she was offered a last minute free trip to the beach and was trying to include SD in their family vacation. I was sure she would cuss him out and call him all kinds of names and she didn't. And it actually makes me feel kind of bad.
And then I'm like wait, this is the same woman that a couple months ago "congratulated" my husband on being laid off due to covid and told SD that her dad got "fired" even though he was laid off. She didn't even have the courtesy to let my husband tell SD about what happened at his job. She has cost our family so much money in unneccessary legal fees due to making up lies to keep child support high. The list goes on and on.
My husband said if BM continues to be reasonable moving forward he wouldn't have an issue with being flexible with her, but for now he isn't willing to do that. I think that's a good plan. Maybe she started taking meds or something, who knows. This is definitely not like her at all. So weird.