Getting divorced but just need to vent
How do you ladies classify going through a cell phone, email, my purse, and my Facebook account?
This is what my STB Ex husband has been doing and I have no idea how long this has been going on for. I found out a couple of years ago that he was going through my email reading emails that I sent and I know that he has gone through my Facebook chats as well. He claims that this accounts were already up when he jumped on my PC but I know he's full of it. I tried to put a lock on my PC but the administrative rights have been locked. I can only assume he did that because I bought the laptop brand new. He has also been going through my purse to get to my phone and then going through all of my texts and if he comes across a conversation that I have had with one of my male friends he freaks out and screams at me. And these conversations consist of "did you watch the Super Bowl?" "Yes. Who were you rooting for?" "Seattle" There is nothing even remotely romantic about any of the conversations. He just did this a couple of weeks ago again after he promised he would stop when I wasn't around my purse and the time before that he screamed at me in front of the kids calling me an effing whore, an effing cheater, an effing liar, and to get the eff out of his house (this was in regards to the Super Bowl texts and happened about a month prior to him going through my phone again). This last time he texted my friend and told him to quit contacting me and then called him a f^ck and proceeded to start screaming at me (Thankfully the kids weren't there this time).
I have never dealt with anybody like this and I think that he has been doing this throughout the entirety of our five year relationship I just never knew it. It's freaking crazy. Not to mention that I moved out four months ago and he was doing things like driving by my house at night, looking in my windows at night and watching me talk on my phone and then would call me the next day and accuse me of being on the phone with another man, show up and leave gifts in my garage without my knowledge, show up and break glass all over my driveway while dropping off some Rubbermaid Bins with my stuff in it and then leave my wedding dress sitting on top of the bins.
I just don't get it. How would you ladies classify this behavior?