DH was being a drunken a-hole last night
So last night DH was in prime form after he pretty much drank two of the big bottles of wine to himself which would be equivalent to four regular bottles.
I have a company Christmas party coming up in December where they will be flying me out since I work remotely. I asked DH if he would come with me and he said that he would but he needed a new suite which would count as his birthday and Christmas present from me. He said that it should be around $750 to $1000. I told him last night that we never spend that kind of money on each other, that it's more than we spend on the three kids for Christmas, and that nobody will be wearing suits at the party. He then proceeded to tell me that if I didn't buy it for him that he wasn't going and that I have spent money on myself buying new clothes which I have but nowhere near that amount and I just dropped $700 on clothes for his kids for school. I told him that he doesn't need a suit since we don't ever do anything that requires wearing one which of course was blamed on me since it's my fault that we don't go out. How? I am not sure. Even the examples that he threw out were completely ridiculous. I told him that I would rather spend that kind of money on new clothes for him that he can wear everyday which of course isn't good enough because he wants a suit.
He then proceeded to go off about how he spends all of his money on the house and bills and that I am hording my money. I told him that I give him $700 a month which is just $200 shy of the entire mortgage payment and drop another $400 to $600 grocery shopping every month. I told him that if he wants access to my money that he needs to get a joint account with me where we are both the account holders so that he can't try and kick me off of it like he has threatened to do in the past when we did share an account where he was the account holder (which is why we have separate accounts now) and that the only reason why I we haven't done this yet is because he has to come with me to the bank. He told me that he refuses to do this (which I am okay with). I also brought up the fact that he had mentioned earlier in the day that we weren't going because they just found out that a nurse who was around one of the Ebola patients in Texas ended up contracting it and then proceeded to fly from Texas to Ohio. He even went off on the CDC and Homeland Security. He ended up calling me a moron and telling me that I don't understand sarcasm because that is what he was doing "being sarcastic" and that he had still planned on going. I told him I don't see how someone can be sarcastic about that type of thing to which he responded by calling me a moron again.
He then let his 7 year old son stay up after 9 PM on a school night and then told him he could go into his room and watch as much T.V. as he wanted. Almost called me by the name of his Ex-wife and then preceded to stand in the kitchen with a little passive aggressive smile on his face right after he did it because he knew that it upset me. This morning he woke up and insulted his 9 year old daughter's clothes that she picked out and sent her to her room without breakfast because she got upset and snapped at him about it. (I made sure that she ate something after he left over an hour late for work so she didn't go to school hungry).
He leaves next week to go crabbing with his brother and father for almost the entire week and I can't wait to have this break from him. I am so sick of this. It was pretty much the same thing the previous week that we had his kids. He turns into a giant a-hole. I told him several times last night he needs to quit drinking this much. And I can assure you that this morning he sees nothing wrong with his behavior last night and thinks that I am in the wrong and that he is entitled to me buying him a $1000 suit and I am being a stingy b!tch by not doing it and that I started everything last night.