okay...

sd10 of course is acting out like always...craving attention...being super annoying - watch me! watch me! I steer clear of her as much as possible...

this kid is going to end up a pregnant teen...or a mean girl bully...or both...I guess I am just venting...my not so DH has talked to BM several times about these issues and frankly...she does NOT care. Nor will she ever do anything about it...just the other day she and her husband picked up and went to the beach because they aren't getting along...she didn't text the girls and say hey! Miss you...nope...she sent a picture of an empty beer bottle in the sand...and it said, "mommy needs another beer..." WOW...neat huh? Anyway - we regularly check sd10's cellphone...tonight I checked her instagram - she posted a picture of her making this terrible sad face in dh's bathroom that said, "after me and (name) had a fight..." Okay...if this sad puppy ridiculous face is not a CRY for attention that is just so annoying to me...I don't know what is...

so then we check her text messages...and low and behold - her friend hasn't been responding much to her because her friend is sick of sd10 constantly asking her to ask her mom if she can have a sleepover - her little friend is also MAD because sd10 keeps texting her 13 year old sister - and is always trying to hang out with her sister and her friends when she is over there - it then goes that sd10 makes her friend feel guilty by saying, "we're bff's and fighting right now" the friend tries to explain herself by saying sometimes her family just needs family time and please forgvive her? WHAT? If I were the little friend - I'd say hey! you are being RUDE and making me ask my mom if you can come over - INVITING YOURSELF OVER IS RUDE- basically just so you can try to act older and hang with my sister...- soooo - DH reads it...his reaction is of course - theres nothing he can do - if she won't either...sadly it's TRUE. A lost cause...this 10 year old is already starting "BFF" drama- I thought that was a 14/15 year old thing....so he looks at me SHOCKED that I care - and asks if I really do care...YES I CARE! SHE IS THE CAUSE TO 75% of our ISSUES! COME ON! I guess I should go back to just ignoring her and NOT caring what becomes of her! The problem is - I have to deal with this kid and her actions the rest of my life. I keep TRYING to CHANGE her - but maybe what she really needs is some girl to KNOCK some sense into HER! END RANT.