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Oh My. YSD is seeing a divorced guy...

TwoOfUs's picture


SO DH and I went to lunch with OSD and her fiance over the weekend...and OSD drops the bomb that YSD is seeing a separated man. 

YSD is 18stb19. This dude is 27 apparently. No kids though. 

DH is freaking out. I wish the guy had kids and that YSD would jump in head first and elope...would serve them all right... 

jk. DH asked me if I'd talk to YSD so I did. Seems like she's not really that serious about him and I advised her to be careful and not rush into anything. Reminded her how young she is, etc. I do still have good rapport with all the skids, and they like to talk to me about these things. I'm 90% disengaged but don't mind chatting with them once every other month or so...which is about the frequency we're at right now. 

I just enjoyed the momentary fantasy of YSD landing a divorced dad at 19 and dealing with skids and a BM. Made me chuckle.


Chmmy's picture

I have the same thoughts about SD16. I hope she has shitty step kids and never has kids herself. I do not want that child reproducing. Honestly I hope none of my 4 skids reproduce and its quite possible that none of them will find someone that wants to reproduce with them.

YSD is not seeing a divorced guy if he's separated, shes fucking a married man. Good chance he is lying and not separated (been there) or he will go back to the wife(been there also)

TwoOfUs's picture

Well...I believe they've only gone out 3 times but I did warn her of that. Biggest red flad - she found out through a friend that he's "separated" and he "hasn't told her yet" but she knows that he's been trying and is just afraid to tell her...


2nd wives club's picture

Are you trying to tell me that married men lie about being separated? OMG!

thinkthrice's picture

on a dating site for single dads.


NoWireCoatHangarsEVER's picture

is that they too become step parents one day to kids just as bad as they were and that the BM of  those steps is just like North Korea.  I can't wait for that actually!  

thiscantbenormal's picture

I remember someone sometime back had a SD that became a stepmom with a h*llacious BM and failed to recognize her own mother was the same type of BM.

CLove's picture

And no thoughts or wishes for Toxic Feral. Just that she stays away from me and doesnt affect my life. Perhaps I should wish stepkids on her. Although she claims she never wants kids, because you now, she has SUFFERED so much!