Time to call a lawyer
So DH still hadn't heard from BM, so emailed her again, taking the advice other posters gave us in my last blog.
Well she finally returned an email. It was very long and hard to read, the kind of thing we steptalkers would say I can't read that block, please add paragraphs. To her benefit she only swore at him a couple times and only brought up past situations, with the added crazy BM spin, a couple times.... so not too bad.
But she pretty much told him, no SS10 will not be coming and she will not make him. She claims he only wants to spend two consecutive nights and not on school days (my first thought was yes so you can have weekends free).
She also talked about how this COs been in place for years so if he wanted to exercise his time he should have done so already. But she also said they have been doing this without the courts help so far so why change that now. She says he gets SS11 for extra time so why does DH want to make things difficult. In DHs head he's thinking yeah my extra time that your always threatening me with, so no the CO does need to be followed.
She also told him he was in contempt of court for not paying the correct years support. DH pays what is in the CO, as far as we know if she wants to change this she needs to apply for that correct? We live in Ontario and DH pays through fro, who would be all over him if it wasn't the correct amount. They are both supposed to share tax return every year but neither of them have done it.
She also claimed that the boys aren't comfortable here because I am 'always around' and they need more one on one time with DH. I really found that laughable because those boys follow me around like lost puppies. The youngest (the one being passed) usually only wants to go do things if I'm going as well .... so I think she's full of crap. Not to mention I try to stay in if DH is taking them out (as I like the break) but this usually means at least one of them will want to stay with me or beg me to come as well.
SS10 and myself ordered a dollhouse to build last time he was here and he was talking about how he was going to need to spend some extra here. The next morning BM took him for a doctors appointment and he hasn't been back since ... to me that's saying something.
I don't know anymore, after we read the email I just looked at DH and said time to call your lawyer .... unfortunately he can't get in till the end of the month.